If you're a virgin, and you give a boy a ********, does that count as losing your virginity? I've always wondered that.
haha answers please! |
Sam,
Oral sex whether you are doing him or he you, still leaves you a virgin, but once you engage in any sexual activity with another person you are considered to be sexually active. So while you are still a virgin you are not very virginal in your behavior. |
My boyfriend could not ejaculate, we dont know why (after hand and ********)? I recently gave my boy a hand job and then after a ********, because he didnt *** after the hand job. He still didnt after the bj, and we dont know why. He is not unable to, because he assured me that its happened before, but I dont know what to do because we both really want him to ejaculate. Has this happened with anyone else, and what can we do to help it? Thanks in advance. |
Is he orgasming and not cumming, or just not orgasming all together?
If he's not orgasming it could be a variety of things. I'm not sure how much you've done those things for him, but I know I've been with some less-experienced girls who just weren't good at it. Ask him if it feels good, or what you could do to make it feel better. Also nerves play a big role in this. If he's self concious, or worried about his performance that can get in the way of orgasm, just as is the case with females.
Now if he's orgasming but not ejaculating it could also be a variety of things. I've had this problem twice from two different causes so I'll try to help out.
First off do you know if he's on any medication, or using some drugs recreationally? Some meds make ejaculation near impossible. If he's being prescribed anything then he has to weigh the positives and negatives. If it's the recreational drugs, get him to stop or dump him.
Another cause could be an infection. I'm pretty sure a general practicioner would write an antibiodic script and send him on his way. If it doesn't get fixed from that ask for a referal to a Urologist who can better determine the cause/solution.
A third option which is my problem could be diabetes. I'm 19 and I've been diabetic most of my life. I don't take the best care of it and the urologist told me that it could cause retroejaculation (the semen shoots into the bladder, instead of out of the urethra). I'm sure he'd have more problems than this if he was unknowingly diabetic, but it's always a possibility so I threw it out there.
Whatever the problem is, I hope yall get it taken care of. Best of luck |
Why does my boy friend lose interest in sex after a ******** ?? We usually have a deal,I do him first and then he does me.But after I finish my part of the deal,he just goes to sleep or says that he is not in the mood........... why is this ??? Its soo unfair |
I know it's unfair, but it's just the way we're created. After climax I also feel incredibly relaxed and can easily fall asleep if laying down within a minute or two. Also, I lose most sexual desires afterwards.
It's called the refractory period; you can read more about it here:
www.answers.com/topic/refractory-… |
Could a girl's sore throat give a boy chlamydia by way of a ********? I have never had sex, so the thought of an STD didn't occur to me when my boyfriend began having painful urination. The only thing I can think of that might link to it is I gave him a ******** when my throat was feeling sore. My throat was sore for about 4 or 5 days, and it was beginning to feel better by the time I did that. Now, about 4 days after I gave him oral, he has painful urination. Is there any sort of virus or something that could have passed to him? Please respond promptly because he is in agony. |
| That's not possible, in order to pass on an STD you must contain one yourself and the only way to catch it is through sex, but it does not initially exist in the throat so you didn't pass on anything to him. It might just be the bacteria from your sore throat not an STD so, all you need to do is send him to a doctor to get antibiotics. too bad he felt bad after a B Job. |
How do you give a ******** with braces? My boy toy wants a ******** from me and now I have braces on. Does that effect it in anyway? Also What way do you suggest to give him a ********? |
| shave his pubes first |
Why does my boy friend always have getting a ******** on his mind? i ust wish i could please him in all ways, |
If you can't please him, then DUMP HIM.
He's obviously just self-centered, and if he cared about you at all, he wouldn't make such a big deal about it.
If it's that bad, and he's being a jerk, then just go. You'll feel better about it in the long run. |
Boy friend told his friends about the ******** a gave him!? i don't know if i should be mad hears what happened - i had sex with my boyfriend and i gave him a bj, the next day i over heard him having a conversation about it on th phone( he thought i was sleeping) he said i was amazing and the best he had ever had, now his friends are looking at me weird and smiling at him in different ways i don't know what to do i feel so weird |
| honestly it's kind of pathetic for him to do that. but guys do it all the time that's how girls become "popular". she gives it up to a guy then tells his friends and they hook up with her but guys talk about their sexual experiences together all the time in my opinion it shows his lack of respect for you but if it bothers you so much talk to him about it and tell him it's not okay with and it's disrespectful. |
Are you a slag if you give two boys blow jobs in one night. And get licked out at the age of 15? right so at my house party my friend gave two boys blow jobs and got licked out in my mum and dads bed. Just at the age of 15
would you consider her to be a slag and should I be mad? |
| yes to the first. As for the 2nd... no, but if you are it's understandable. |