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My man likes shemale porn do you know why? we have been together for 6 years and i find it on his phone in the history quite often it kinda made me laugh when i first saw it cause i was in shock now it makes me mad he started looking at this stuff around the same time he was cheating on me with another women. it kinda makes me feel gross and want to ask him everytime we have sex if he is sure he wants to cause i dont have a dick. | Why are you with a man that treats you like that ?
You have low self esteem.
Tell him if that is what he needs he needs to go somewhere else.
you are a real woman.
Peace. | Why isn't my boyfriend interested in sex with me? I have been dating my boyfriend for almost three years. He is 18 years old. Recently I found homosexual porn in my boyfriend's internet history. I freaked out as I found several video clips of male threesomes, as well as a highly disturbing shemale clip. I have been told, along with many others, that male fantasies are natural among men. However, I am highly skeptical due to the fact that he is very dismissive of sex. For instance, each time that I initiate sex with my boyfriend, or simply touch him in attempts to get him aroused, the excuses begin. he tells me that he is too tired, isn't feeling well, or simply has a headache. I am very aware that women tend to use these excuses. I am greatly confused as to why a young man of good health would refuse sex at any time. If sex is not initiated by either party we may not have sex for as long as up to 2 weeks to a month. On average, we have sex once or twice a month, and at the very most, three times if I nag. He tells me that sex is not important to him, and when I asked him to rate its importance on a scale from one to ten, he rated five. I am baffled as to how a man can tell a woman he loves her and truly mean it without expressing it to her through sexuality. He is very affectionate and loving but no matter how many times I tell him that our sex life concerns me, or how many times I've sat down and talked to him, examining every possible scenario, he refuses to budge. Throughout the entire relationship I have been very open to trying new sexual things with him. His latest excuse is that I don't give him enough oral sex, however, I don't believe this is the cause for his disinterest in sex due to the fact that even when I gave him a lot of oral sex, he has been very dismissive of our sex life. He says that he can go without sex, and admitted to me that the thought of sex doesn't make him horny and when we have sex its not fully satisfying. I know he is not cheating on me because we are together every day, and I haven't raised any suspicions about him being with another women. However, I have a hard time believing that 6 gay porn clips along with 1 shemale clip is simply "curiosity". If he has hardly any interest in sex, and rates it five out of ten, then his disinterest clearly isn't observable through his internet history. To make matters worse, I found "tentacle porn". All my male friends have told me that he must be a homosexual. Unfortunately, out of fear, denial and often utter disbelief, I feel as though this evidence is not enough. When I put two and two together I realize that something is not right. I am a loving girlfriend and would never throw it in a mans face that they are homosexual. However, I realize that a gay man will only be closeted for so long until he gets up and decides to leave you. I confronted him about my concerns of him being bisexual, and he totally lost it on me. He turned sarcastic and angry, "thanking" me for accusing him of being gay. It frustrates me that no matter how kind and patient towards him in the middle of all this, he refuses to be honest with me. I haven't admitted that I checked his computer history, and I am hesitant to as I am afraid that he will call me a stalker. If anyone can offer any advice, I will truly appreciate it. I am in the dark, and hoping that someone will help me.
I would like to add that often times my boyfriend gets an erection but won't take it further. He tells me that just because a man has an erection it doesn't mean that he wants to have sex. A while ago he told me that he doesn't want to have too much because "it's like eating too much of the same food, you lose taste for it". I was deeply hurt and offended by this comment.
Also, he sees me every single day and we talk on the phone regularly. Why would he want to come and see me every day but not want to have sex regularly? Sometimes i feel as though it takes a lot of nagging on my part in order to get him to do the deed. | | I was believing you till I got to the "tentacle porn" part. | Is it normal that my bf prefers anal sex? Sorry if I am graphic here but I it bothers me I want to know.
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I've been with him for 4 years, and since the beginning he was fascinated with the ***. Even when I used to go to the bathroom, he used want to rest on the phone. I think it is a fetish?
BUT, if I asked him during sex what type of sex he wants I'm 100% he would say anal.
Some months ago he said he had a dream of a black shemale and him in his dream. He told he probably cause he had been watching shemale porn. Today again, I discovered he still watches shemale porn. Just to make it clear its not the only type of porn he watches, and he does not like men, or penises he says, but somehow a shemale is ok in his eyes?
He told me , a shemale is not like a man, she has breasts and the face of a woman.
IS he normal?
Or am I paranoid?
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He does not like guy on guy porn he told me.
Some years ago though, he told me something I remember it. He had a problem with his stomach bowel movements, he was like 12 or 13 and he want to the doctor, so the doctor examined him bu putting his hands inside his anus. He told me he liked the sensation and he put his hands inside his anus at home in the shower a few times he did that. | Uhhhhh.... why would you be so fascinated by this? If it feels good for you or whatever then just accept it. Its a good thing your not mad at him for watching shemale porn I guess....
"Is it normal that my bf prefers anal sex?"
Completely. I would assume its actually better because the chances of having a guy are slim then. | Is it normal that my bf prefers anal sex 100 times more ? Sorry if I am graphic here but I it bothers me I want to know.
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I've been with him for 4 years, and since the beginning he was fascinated with the ***. Even when I used to go to the bathroom, he used want to rest on the phone. I think it is a fetish?
BUT, if I asked him during sex what type of sex he wants I'm 100% he would say anal.
Some months ago he said he had a dream of a black shemale and him in his dream. He told he probably cause he had been watching shemale porn. Today again, I discovered he still watches shemale porn. Just to make it clear its not the only type of porn he watches, and he does not like men, or penises he says, but somehow a shemale is ok in his eyes?
He told me , a shemale is not like a man, she has breasts and the face of a woman.
IS he normal?
Or am I paranoid? | | That's gross shemales are trannys who got a boob job he's messed up your fine | If your boyfriend/hubby told you he once had sex with a prostitute when he was younger, how would you react? Honest answers from women only please -- I don't care care how harsh they might be so long as they are accurate.
I'm a 19 year old male. I was raised by decent parents, have always had strong moral values, and consider myself to be a good guy. I was extremely successful in high school and was admitted to a very good university. I pay for school myself -- I work on the side and make enough money to put myself through.
I attended a friend's birthday party in the city nearly six months ago. I used a fake ID to buy drinks and got extremely drunk like everyone else who was there. I got separated from my friend at the end of the night when the place where the function was held closed. I was going to stay at his place in the city. Because my phone was dead, I decided to walk to my car. When I got in, I realized I was in no state to drive. I can't explain exactly how I felt, but I knew I needed a place to go to sober up -- Looking back, I know I was feeling particularly horny (I just was at a party with a lot of beautiful women) and sexually frustrated (I was a virgin at the time, wanted to have sex, and felt like the whole world had but me). I stepped out of my car and within ten seconds I stumbled into (almost literally) a prostitute. She was walking down the sidewalk I was walking up. She asked me if I wanted anything. Initially, I said no. She pressed again, and I folded -- I thought in my head "what the heck?"
She led me to some room in a nearby hotel (which was also right on the very same street) and we proceeded to have sex. Midway through it -- and this is real -- I came to realize she was transgender (breasts and penis). You need to understand, I was extremely inebriated (brown-out drunk) and she was a pro at disguising her "secret". The positions she assumed and the way she positioned her body / clothes during sex made it initially impossible for me to know -- she looked like a woman. I was shocked but extremely drunk, and I continued with the act. I had seen "shemale" porn on the internet some times -- never really enjoyed it -- but knew it was a kinky thing designed from straight men and knew two friends who looked at it from time to time. I guess this knowledge combined with the fact that I was highly inebriated in the moment, made me continue with the act initially.
At some point though, the gravity of what I was doing kind of hit me. Suffice to say, I was traumatized. I left the room. I took a cab to the hospital. Even though I wore protection, I got tested for STDs (the condom fell off for a second -- being drunk and doing what I was doing, I couldn't maintain an erection).
Since this incident took place, my life turned upside down. I am really disgusted with myself. I took time off school and became massively depressed. I even was suicidal at one point. It's like this deep dark secret I hold --although I have told my closest friends, and they kind of laughed it off and have been here for me -- and I feel as if no one can respect me. I can't forgive myself.
I don't understand how I let myself get in that position. I always had good values, even contemplated holding out to marriage last summer.
When I get married, I want to be fully honest with my wife. And I want to be able to tell her about what happened that night, about my "first time." I fear though, that despite how good of a person I am -- or, I was up until then -- how many accomplishments I might have, she will never think of me the same when I reveal this fact to her. I feel like she may not want to be with me when I present it to her (resulting in a divorce if I reveal after we're married) or she'll think differently of me, and it will be very pretty bad for the relationship.
What do you think? If your man told you this after you got married, honestly, how would you react? How would things be different?
What if he told you before you got married around the time you got engaged?
Please don't hold back. Tell me the truth. | If the guy explained it to me as fully and honestly as you just did, then I wouldn't mind at all. If anything, it would make me think more of him, because I could see he was adult enough to face up to his problems and respected me enough to tell me the whole truth before we got married, rather than just hope it never came up later on.
I think most women would respect you a great deal more for telling them the truth, even if you were worried that it might hurt them or yourself. However, if you waited until after you were married, it would look a bit like you didn't say earlier because you thought you'd wait until the marriage so it's less easy for her to break apart from you. | Why do some gay men use women as covers? I just found out my boyfriend is gay ... we only dated for a month and a half and it explains many things. His friends and him used to touch each others' crotches ... as a joke, as they so called it. I found chats/emails he printed out insinuating sexual activity with his friend. That also explains why he was always saying he had a dirty secret (well, only when he was drunk).
We only dated for a month and a half and I fell for him. He was nice initially and took me out to different places, which were his special touch ... bourbon tasting, limo ride, etc. Then we made love and it never crossed my mind he was gay since he seemed to enjoy it ... and before him I had had only one other sex partner but with this boyfriend ... I felt incredible sexually, initially, since he could ejaculate twice in a row (I wonder who he was thinking about then). He wanted to take me to visit his parents, after two weeks of knowing him, in Michigan (we live in KY). He had me talk to his mom on the phone. Then he became somewhat aggressive and distant because I didn't want to partake in watching shemale porn with him. He hit me once when we were having sex that it bruised me, and he didn't stop until I told him to. Then he forced me to have anal sex, since i was menstruating and it hurt (first time and I was unprepared)...
I figure now he just had me talk on the phone with his mom as his front ... and I figure that all along I was his front ... as he once said in a chat to his "friend" ... and how much he finds women repulsive (no wonder he started 'hating' me in the end.
Why lie? Why would someone who's gay lie and use you as a cover? I would have rather he would have confided in me and told me that he was gay (I'm accepting of that). I would have pretended to have been his g/f if that's what he wanted ... But why lie to someone who's genuine and nice ... and act abusive ... I don't know what to think? | | because some people are huge butt faces and are horrible to homosexuals, which is wrong love is for everyone not just the strtaight people. | My boyfriend is addicted to porn!? So I understand I'm pregnant and not able nor want to have sex or mess around..but my boyfriend like takes of advantage of that and watches porn ALL the time! Rather it be some femdom, shemale, or just bbw... He says he don't actually masturbate to it, he just enjoys and is curious about it all. (which shemale is kind of interesting as in what the hell is that a male or female) buy anyhow..it makes me feel disgusting when he watches it, I mean I'm pregnant my body has changed a lot n I don't feel attractive at all! He still grabs me n tells me I'm beautiful at times. But it just hurts my feelings to know he's done whacked off..and maybe I'm weird cuz it's like I search to see if he's done it...like our history on the computer is automatically deleted but I still seem to manage to see that he's looked at it! Then it's like I search the laundry basket...crazy I know...n it's like after I have finally found what I needed to find, I feel terrible!
Now our computer has a virus on it and u can't even get on there! And I know it's from the porn! And on that note I won't be able to leave Any messages on here cuz I'm on my phone! Any advice tho on what I should do? Or should I even feel bad since I won't put out? I mean I know he has to get that release from somewhere and Id rather it be this than him stepping out! | | He's disturbed to be looking at fem dom pics with guys taking it in the *** and chicks with ***** pictures. He's "curious"...so I see it as a gay fetish and a potential interest he may want to satisfy. I guess the answer is simple, really. Since he's committed to your guyren and you and you don't want to rock the boat the best idea is to just let it go. It may bother you but you've got bigger concerns in the immediate future so tend to your body and then to your babies and see how things work out in the next year or so. If things change or you notice differences in that time address them...for now you need to just relax and tend to your guyren and thus yourself. Worry about this kind of thing will just add to your stress level and influence your health. Let it go and see what the future brings when problems get absolutely unbearable. Good luck |
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